At the start of a new year, many of us set ambitious resolutions. You might aim to hit the gym five times a week, read several books weekly, or meditate daily. However, starting these bold goals from scratch often leads to fading enthusiasm by the end of January.

If this sounds familiar, consider a different approach: self-nudging. This method involves taking small, consistent steps towards improvement, making change more manageable. In this post, I’ll look into the concept of nudges, illustrate with examples, and guide you on how to effectively weave nudging into your daily life.


Discover the Power of Subtle Nudges

Cover of 'Nudge: The Final Edition' by Richard H. Thaler and Cass R. Sunstein, showcasing a silhouette of a family of elephants, symbolizing the concept of nudging as a gentle yet powerful influence in decision-making and behavior change.The concept of a “nudge” was popularized by Nobel laureate Richard Thaler. It involves making subtle changes in your environment or behavior to encourage better decisions. In his bestseller “Nudge: The Final Edition: Improving Decisions About Money, Health, and the Environment,” Thaler explains how these minimal yet strategic adjustments can significantly influence behavior over time.

For example, you might have received a report comparing your home energy usage with your neighbors’. This report uses social comparison as a nudge to encourage conserving energy, benefiting both your bills and the environment. It’s a simple yet effective way to influence behavior without heavy-handed enforcement or regulation.

Small nudges are more sustainable than drastic changes. They seamlessly integrate into your daily routines, gradually becoming a part of your natural behavior.


Boost Confidence with Simple Body Language Tricks  

Cover of 'Presence' by Amy Cuddy, featuring a wooden figure standing tall on a pedestal, symbolizing the power of body language as a nudge towards personal empowerment and meeting challenges with boldness.Amy Cuddy, a social psychologist, explores the power of body language in her widely viewed TED talk “Your body language may shape who you are” and her bestseller “Presence.” She discusses how self-nudging through simple body language changes can significantly boost confidence and presence.

Cuddy recommends adopting a power pose before important events where being confident and mentally present is essential. Often likened to the “Wonder Woman” stance, it involves standing with hands on hips, chin up, and chest out. She advises holding this pose for two minutes in private before such occasions. Her research shows that emulating a power pose can evoke a strong sense of confidence. This technique is particularly effective before high-stakes situations like job interviews and public speaking, serving as a small but powerful nudge to enhance your mental focus and performance.

According to Cuddy, your posture doesn’t just convey confidence to others; it also communicates with your own mind, influencing how you perceive and engage with the world. This internal communication through posture shapes your psychological state, leading to notable changes in your feelings and behavior.

Such minor adjustments in body language can have profound impacts. This practice of self-nudging demonstrates the transformative power of body language, turning simple physical changes into tools for personal empowerment.


Use Nudges for Positive Behavior Change

Nudges come in various forms, including tangible cues, mental strategies, motivational quotes, and physical actions like adopting a power pose.

Embrace Written Reminders for Immediate Actions

One morning, while making scrambled eggs, I noticed the “shake well” instruction on an egg white box. This clear prompt led me to shake the box before using it, showing how small nudges can improve everyday tasks.

Utilize Technology for Healthier Habits

Many people wear smartwatches that nudge them to move or stand up after periods of inactivity. These tech reminders address immediate behavior and have a significant impact on long-term physical health.

Overcome Procrastination with Focused Techniques

Procrastination is a common challenge. I am a big fan of the Pomodoro technique, which involves working in focused bursts with short breaks. Whenever I hesitate to start a daunting task, I just hit the start button of the timer. This simple step is effective in overcoming procrastination and entering a productive state.

Activate Mental Strategies for Motivation

I use a mental nudge to motivate myself to go to water aerobics classes. The challenge isn’t the class itself, which I love, but leaving the house on a cold, dark night. To overcome this, I play one of my favorite songs from the class in my head. It helps me visualize the energy and fun of the workout, motivating me to brave the cold and venture out.

Use Actions to Uplift Your Feelings

In her book “Presence,” Amy Cuddy explores several concepts that demonstrate the power of nudges. One such concept includes a quote by William James (1842–1910), often referred to as the “Father of American Psychology”: “I don’t sing because I’m happy; I’m happy because I sing.” This insight suggests that actions influence feelings, not the other way around.

When you’re feeling down, consider this as a motivational nudge. Simple activities, like walking, running, biking, swimming, or singing, can significantly uplift your mood.

Adjust Your “iPostures” to Avoid Feeling Powerless

Cuddy’s concept of “iPosture” addresses the posture we often adopt while using phones, tablets, or laptops. This posture, characterized by being closed or slouched, can unconsciously suggest powerlessness. To counter this, alter your environment for a more upright posture. Using a desktop or separate monitors can help achieve this.

Be mindful of your posture throughout the day. Small adjustments, such as straightening up and opening your chest, can empower you and improve your well-being.

Make Your Future Self Feel Close to You

Cuddy also shares research showing the benefits of having an age-progressed image of yourself. This technique serves as a nudge to encourage saving for retirement. It bridges the gap between your present and future selves, making long-term goals more tangible. Having a visual representation of your future self can help make aspirations more concrete and attainable.

In all these examples, nudges – whether tangible or mental – play a pivotal role. They guide your decisions and shape your life.

Design Your Nudges for Personalized Improvement

Having explored various examples of nudges, let’s now focus on how you can craft your own. Remember, the key is to start small. For instance, adopting a power pose is a great starting point.

To further personalize your approach, begin by identifying small yet impactful changes you wish to make. These changes should be tailored to your daily life and align with your personal goals. To assist you in effectively designing these nudges, here’s a straightforward framework to guide you:


1️⃣ Identify the Area of Improvement: Think about aspects of your life where you want to make a change or develop a new habit. It could be related to health, productivity, learning, or any other personal goal.

2️⃣ Define Specific, Achievable Actions: Once you’ve pinpointed the area, think of small, specific actions that could lead to improvement.

3️⃣ Make It Easy and Accessible: The key to a successful nudge is to make it easy to access, whether it’s a physical reminder or a mental cue. For tangible changes, place physical reminders where you’re most likely to see them, or set alarms as prompts.

For mental changes, develop cues that you can easily recall, like playing a motivational song in your head or using a specific mantra. These cues should be simple enough to trigger without needing a physical prompt.

4️⃣ Tie It to an Existing Habit: If possible, attach your nudge to an already established routine. For instance, if you want to start flossing, do it right before brushing your teeth, leveraging an existing habit.

5️⃣ Monitor and Adjust: Keep track of how effectively your nudge is helping you achieve your goal. Be open to adjusting your approach if it’s not working as well as you’d hoped.

6️⃣ Celebrate Small Wins: Recognize and celebrate when your nudge leads to positive change, no matter how small. This reinforces the behavior and motivates you to keep going.

Start with One Small Nudge for Big Transformations

Understanding how to create and implement personal nudges is just the beginning. Now, it’s your turn to take up the challenge: identify one small nudge you can introduce into your daily routine.

Remember the words of Amy Cuddy, “Don’t fake it till you make it; fake it till you become it.” These small, consistent steps can lead you towards significant transformation.

What’s the first nudge you’ll try? Share your ideas and experiences in the comments. Let’s inspire each other on this journey to become the person we want to be, one nudge at a time!